How to show me that you love me

Wake me gently in the morning. Maybe spoon me until I wake up in your arms. This will make me happy.

Before you go to work in the morning, even if you’re rushing, pause to kiss me and hold me a little, just long enough for me to feel your heart beating in your chest and for me to wish you a nice day at the office dear.

Text me at some point during the day to say hi. Respond to my texts, even if it’s brief, just so I know you’ve received and read them.

When you get home from work, kiss me and look at me like you’ve missed me just a little bit.

When we eat dinner at the table, which we do most nights, talk to me, tell me about your day, ask about mine, talk to our son. Look me in the eye. Smile your gorgeous smile, the one where your eyes crinkle a little at the sides.

Hold my hand.

Hold me.

Hug me.

Talk to me.

Laugh with me.

At bedtime, tell me you love me, kiss me, hold me, spoon me if you’d like. Let me fall asleep feeling loved and feeling love for you.

That is how to show me that you love me.

Show me you love me

9 responses to “How to show me that you love me

  1. wow love this! it’s always the lil things which matter the most, no big fancy gestures just human contact and a genuine interest in each other. im pondering my ‘how to show me you love me’ list now, this should be a linky! x

    • Thank you for the love, I keep telling him that the smallest, simplest things are how I know I’m loved. I don’t need diamonds or weekends in Paris 🙂 Love to see your post x

  2. Heh 🙂 I wonder if this is your big dream 🙂 Surely it’s mine. I’ve just picked up a book called Distant partner by Dr. Carter and it taught me a lot about the importance of emotions in my life. Often i find that words don’t mean much but the feelings and emotions behind those words represent everything. Being able to show those emotions it’s very hard for some people.
    Lovely post.

  3. Beautiful – so simple to do, so easy to forget!

  4. This is beautiful, I second all of it! It’s the little things x

  5. It’s so true. The little things matter so much, probably far more than the big things ultimately!

  6. Susanne Remic (@Ghostwritermumm)

    I love this and I think we all feel like this some days, if not most. Its so easy to get caught up in busy lives and forget the people who matter are still there x x

  7. I think it’s what we’re all looking for isn’t it!

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