When I was pregnant I’d always planned to breastfeed, I’d bought myself creams and pads and did all the boob massages beforehand to encourage milk flow and all that jazz. I was however a realist and did buy a cheap set of bottles, a steamer and 48 hours worth of milk just in case. I thought they wouldn’t go to waste if I could express some milk.
As it happened my boy was born early in traumatic style and I had a condition which made breastfeeding incredibly difficult. Together we spent a week in hospital and during those long, hard days every midwife for miles around tried to milk me, to no avail. Not a drop could be found. We collectively gave up and resigned ourselves to having a bottle fed baby.
Honestly I don’t have a problem if parents choose to feed their baby by breast or bottle. As a parent you’ve got to go with what works for you and your family. If you can’t breastfeed, even with experts on hand to help you, then there is no point at all beating yourself up about it. Parenting throws enough guilt your way.
Yes, I totally get the breast is best argument. But I look at my nephew and my son who are only 6 months apart in age. My nephew was breastfed and my boy bottle fed and there is no difference. They are both lively, happy, engaging, intelligent boys. Both healthy, cheeky and thriving.
Breastfeeding is an emotive subject, one which everyone has an opinion on and one which is a real parenting hot potato. For me as with most things, my attitude is do whatever you want but don’t pour scorn on those who do things differently. That’s just good manners and respect.
So, breast or bottle? What did you do and if it didn’t work for you like me, how do you feel about it?