Practical And Emotional Tips For Supporting A Family Member After An Accident

Last Updated on May 19, 2023 by HodgePodgeDays

Accidents can happen when we least expect them. You’re naturally going to want to offer support and assistance to a family member who’s suffered an accident during their recovery process. But it’s not always easy to know where to start, is it?

Find Transport Options

Transportation is going to be an area that demands immediate attention. Your family member will probably need help getting to medical appointments or running essential errands. Here are a few transport options you can consider:

1. Public Transportation: In the UK, public transportation networks are well-established and accessible. Research your area’s local bus, train, and tram services to determine the most convenient routes for your family member and watch out for strikes. Be sure to check if these services have any accessibility features for individuals with mobility constraints.
2. Private Hire Taxis: Private hire taxis, such as minicabs or executive cars, can provide a more comfortable and personalised transportation experience. They can be booked in advance and offer door-to-door service, which can be beneficial for someone with limited mobility. Look for licensed private hire companies in your area and inquire about any special assistance they can provide.
3. Community Transport Services: Some local authorities and charities provide specialised transport services for individuals with mobility challenges. These services are often free or available at a reduced cost. Research community transport schemes in your area and check their eligibility criteria and booking procedures.
4. Wheelchair Accessible Vehicles: This might be the best option if your family member has a long-term injury or illness. A wheelchair-accessible vehicle will ensure that you can get to any appointments or errands as needed, not to mention visiting friends and family members. These vehicles can be expensive, which is why Motability allows you to swap your mobility allowance for a vehicle. You can find the vehicle of your choice, and it comes with maintenance, repairs, breakdown cover and insurance.

Offer Emotional Support

Recovering from an accident can be a physically and emotionally challenging process. It’s so important to remember to offer emotional support where you can even if it isn’t always easy.

1. Be Patient And Understanding: Recovery takes time, and your family member may experience ups and downs along the way. Be patient and understanding of their progress, setbacks, and any limitations they may encounter. Try to avoid adding pressure and remind them that recovery takes time.
2. Assist With Practical Matters: Everyday tasks can become more challenging after an accident. You can offer to help with practical matters such as cooking, cleaning, or running errands. However, it’s important to remember that you don’t want to interfere with their independence too much.
3. Accompany Them To Medical Appointments: Attending medical appointments can be overwhelming. Some people struggle with the medical jargon if there are complex treatment plans or unfamiliar medical jargon involved. You could offer to come along to these appointments to provide emotional support and make sure that they’re understanding what they’re being told.
4. Encourage Self-Care: Self-care is so important and sometimes everyone needs a little reminder to prioritise it. You might need to remind them that it’s OK to rest sometimes, and you should think about what activities they enjoy that you could be a part of.

This is a contributed post.