On the 25th June 2016 my life changed forever. My dad died. He was one of my best friends, one of the few people who would tell me things straight, a man who made me laugh every time I saw him and the person who has quietly supported me throughout my life, through good times and bad. He’s gone and I’ll never get over it. Here is the obituary I wrote for him.
Peter Woolley passed away peacefully at his home in Didsbury on 25th June 2016. He leaves his daughter Jane, her husband Matthew and grandson Benjamin, and his son David, his wife Lisa and grandson Joseph.
Peter was born in Ladybarn to Nellie and Bill Woolley. His father died in the 1960s and Peter was a devoted son, visiting his mother every day until her death in 2007.
Peter was 18 when he set up in business in Salford as a printer, having served his time as an apprentice in Heaton Moor. He then moved the business to School Lane in Didsbury, and finally to the current premises on Barlow Moor Rd in 1970 where he became a well-known and popular figure in Didsbury.
In his youth Peter was a keen and accomplished sportsman. He was Captain of the Burnage rugby team, a surprisingly talented basketball player and also a wrestler. Peter was a bodybuilder and for a period of time held an unofficial bench press record, as well as being something of a mentor for the younger members of the gym.
Following the birth of Jane and David, Peter decided to pursue his burgeoning interest in magic and joined the Order of the Magi in 1978, eventually becoming President in 1993. At his first meeting Peter met the man who was to be his friend for many years, Max Jacobson. Doug Henning sparked his interest in illusions and with the help of his brother-in-law David he built some props and spent several years performing in clubs, theatres and small venues around Manchester. Peter was a naturally funny man with a gift for comic timing and often had people crying with laughter.
Due to popular demand Peter eventually stopped performing entirely and put his efforts into mentoring and developing young performers including Tony Stevens, Alan Firth, Phillip Partridge and the man who was to become his unofficial second son, Mike McClean.
Thursday nights at Pete’s house were almost legendary, with both Jane and David recalling being dragged downstairs to form an impromptu audience for the performers and there being an atmosphere of supportive camaraderie.
In 2002 Peter left the Order of the Magi and joined a new magic society, The Manchester Circle of Magicians. At the first meeting Peter was elected President and thereafter became an Honorary Life Vice President of the MCM. Peter will be remembered as a great supporter of magic in general and the MCM in particular. He was a great mentor to many budding magicians and had a wicked sense of humour.
In 2010 Peter welcomed two grandsons to the family and in 2013 retired from his printing business, (passing over the reins to his son-in-law Matthew) to become a professional grandparent. Typically, Peter loved to make Joseph and Benjamin laugh and did tentatively introduce them to some magic tricks. Balloon animals were a speciality.
Peter enjoyed his retirement and relished the chance to catch up with close friends; going out for regular curry nights, comedy evenings, Monday magic nights, popping across the road for a brew and short breaks away to Pickering in Yorkshire.
He was a popular and well liked figure. He had a deeply ingrained and bone dry sense of humour, a strong work ethic, he believed in honesty and he surrounded himself with people he respected and admired. Peter was very much a self-made man, one of life’s gentle eccentrics and the world will have a lot less laughter in it without him. He will be greatly missed.
Sending love and hugs!
Your dad sounds like a wonderful man. I am so sorry for your loss x
Thank you Kim. Growing up I thought every dad was like my dad, but now I know just what a one off he was and what a fantastically eccentric childhood we had.
Oh Jane. He sounds like a truly wonderful man who touched many lives. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Thank you so much Pippa xx
I’m so sorry for your loss, he sounds like he was an amazing man you have so many wonderful memories to cherish X
Thank you Angela. He was a complete one off xx
What an amazing father Jane. Sending love and hugs xx
Thank you Claire, you’re very kind xx
Oh Jane, I’m so so sorry. This is one of the nicest, most special obituaries I’ve ever read – Your Dad sounded like a brilliant character. I have no words that will make your pain feel better – Just to say, keep talking about him. Don’t be afraid that people won’t want to hear. Much Love x
Thank you so much for saying that Helen, that’s a very lovely thing to say. In my lifetime he will never be forgotten xx
I’m really sorry you had to lose him Jane, he sounds like an awesome bloke, Dad and Grandfather. I’m glad the children will be able to remember him forever xx
Thanks you Jenny, I’m very glad both grandkids are just about old enough to remember him. I’m lucky to have known him for as long as I did. x
So sorry Jane to hear that. Your dad was such a gentleman and very friendly person. He always had a smile on his face. I’m sorry for your loss. Take care dear xxx
Thank you so much Ati. He was such a great grandad, the boys will miss him xx
Jane your dad sounds an amazing man and I am so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful gentleman and you can tell how proud you were to call him your dad. Love and hugs to you. You know where we all are if you need anything x