To my son, on his 14th birthday

As I sit and write this, you have two more weeks of being 13 years old. I’ll post this on my blog on your actual birthday, but two weeks ago I sat on my bed and thought about the last 50 weeks of your life.

Thirteen is universally regarded as a tough age, your body changes, your voice goes a bit weird and friendships and relationships can become more complex.

To my son, on his 14th birthday

Physically you’re tall, strong and muscular for a young teen. You tower above your friends and most of your family. You’re growing into a fine looking young man and you’ve more or less mastered regular washing and daily deodorant, for which we are all grateful. I wish you’d get into the same daily habits with your homework, but there’s still some time.

For Christmas you got an electric shaver, because your moustache game is strong and you’re now enjoying, or not particularly enjoying a weekly shave. it often feels like every time I look at you, your features change a little, you’ve grown a bit more, or you’ve discovered some previously untapped wisdom.

Looking back, 2023/2024 has been a fun 12 months. You’ve been on a good selection of holidays, including the school trip to France, you’ve been to Devon, Scotland and Wales a massive six times. You’ve been on Scout camps, a heap of train days out, and other adventures galore.

To my son, on his 14th birthday

You’ve developed a love of sports, and we’ve been to watch rugby matches, cricket, and ice hockey, you love basketball and all kinds of weird and wonderful sports, but rugby is your most favourite. As you read this, you’ll be fresh home from a surprise weekend in Cardiff, where you watched the Wales v Fiji Rugby match.

It’s hard to talk about the last year without acknowledging all the changes in our little lives. It’s been a difficult 12 months at home, with divorce, an imminent house move and ill health affecting our family, you’ve heard a lot of hard news and dealt with all of the changes beautifully. Everything in your life changing at the same time is difficult enough when you’re a fully fledged adult, never mind when you’re a teenager, but you just seem to be absolutely fine with everything, and I really admire how you’re handling things.

It’s been an absolute pleasure to watch you grow and change, and to be by your side throughout the last 12 months. You are genuinely hilarious, cheeky, clever, and occasionally very wise. You see the world in different ways to me, and I really appreciate the different perspectives you bring.

I love the way you bring me into your world, and together we’re exploring things I’d never have even looked at before. Our train adventures are brilliant fun, whether it’s just nipping up to Manchester Airport, or surprising you with a long distance trip to Edinburgh, your enthusiasm is infectious and I thank you for bringing such light into my life.

Benjamin, you are the very best human I know. I hope the next 52 weeks are more settled for you, and I hope you continue to find your stride as you move closer to adulthood. I hope you have the confidence to believe in yourself and what you do and to the best you can be in all things. I never ask for perfection, I only ask that you try as much as you’re able and to be open minded about everything.

To my best boy, happy 14th birthday. I love you to the moon and the stars and the planets and back!

Mama xx

To my son, on his 14th birthday

Discovering Brazilian clear quartz crystals

We were sent this crystal for review purposes. All images and opinions are our own.

For many years I’ve enjoyed having crystals around me. My Grandma loved amethyst, so at an early age I was gifted some lovely little gemstones from her and that was the start of my love for crystals and gemstones.

For the last 20 years or so, I’ve carried a little piece of citrine in my purse. Citrine is supposed to encourage wealth, and whilst I’ll not be retiring to Monte Carlo anytime soon, I’ve always had enough money in my purse to feed my family, and that’s wealth enough for me.

Brazilian clear quartz crystals

When I was pregnant with my son, I was given a small hand carved rose quartz angel, and to this day she sits by my bed, watching over me. In times of emotional need, I pop a small flat piece of rose quartz in my bra, by my heart, and that brings me calm and peace and love.

Also near my bed is a piece of obsidian, for protection. I’ve had a difficult few years, and since placing the stone there, things have changed for the better in my life.

Brazilian clear quartz crystals

I really love buying crystals and having them around me in my home. I recently discovered Persephone, an online shop based in Lincoln, which sells rare and unusual crystals. They have some absolute beauties available, so I’ve added a new piece of Brazilian quartz to my collection.

Quartz crystals in their simplest, clearest form are just beautiful. I just love the way the sunlight beams through them and sprinkles rainbows around my room. I have several hung up on windows to catch the light.

The most recent addition to my crystal collection is a stunning clear 5.4cm, 30g quartz obelisk tower from Brazil. Clear quartz is great for amplifying energy, it contains all colours of the rainbow, which helps to balance all chakras. It’s primarily known as a healing stone, and is often used by reiki practitioners.

Brazilian clear quartz crystals

This stunning obelisk tower is an excellent crystal for beginners, and can be used during meditation to help bring clarity and it’s well known for being an energy amplifier.

It has some beautiful inclusions, and each crystal tower has been cut to make the most of its individuality, so each piece is absolutely unique.

People buy crystals for all kinds of reasons. I’m pretty basic in that I like the look of them and enjoy having them around me. I know a little of their properties and I have some small pieces I carry with me for specific reasons. Other people use them properly, for reiki, meditation, or for spell work or similar. I think it’s really fine just to enjoy them because they’re pretty, like I do.

Brazilian clear quartz crystals

I’m not going to make any grand claims about how my clear Brazilian quartz crystal has changed my life, but it’s a beautiful addition to my collection, and when the sun shines through it, it sparkles so joyfully, and we all need little sparkles of joy these days, don’t we?

Persephone specialise in high quality and rare crystals that you wouldn’t find in your standard crystal shop, and if you enjoy crystals, then you could really lose yourself on their website. They also have a YouTube channel where you can learn more about their beautiful crystals.

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Review: Simba Hybrid Pillow

We were sent a Simba Hybrid Pillow for review purposes. All images and opinions are our own.

A little while ago I upgraded my sleeping situation and added a Simba Hybrid mattress topper to my bed. It’s been an absolute dream to sleep on and my bad back has been less bad since the Simba mattress topper came into my life. Now that summer has passed, my thoughts go once again to building a cosy nest for me to hibernate in this winter, so the next logical thing to do was to upgrade to a Simba Hybrid Pillow.

The Simba Hybrid Pillow is, well, it’s really fancy. It’s like the racing car of pillows. It’s stuffed with little blue foam cubes (which they call nanocubes) which you can take out or put back in so your pillow gets to your preferred height. It feels like a gimmick, but it’s actually really clever.

Review: Simba Hybrid Pillow

The nanocubes are in a cotton cover, which is inside a removable quilted cover, which makes your pillow extra comfy. The pillow is designed for comfort, it keeps cool and the nanocubes mean you can add more or remove some until you get the perfect pillow for you.

Review: Simba Hybrid Pillow

The Simba Hybrid Pillow comes in a reusable storage bag and there’s also a small bag where you can keep your excess nanocubes. The pillow arrives fully stuffed with the cubes, and then you remove as many or as few as you want. I’ve taken a couple of handfuls out, I like a not too tall, but not too flat pillow, which makes me the Goldilocks of pillow enjoyers.

Review: Simba Hybrid Pillow

It’s not too soft, or too firm, you can adjust the height and it is designed to be cool and comfortable. The Simba Hybrid Pillow has (according to the Simba website) Stratos cool-touch tech, which means that one side of the pillow is cool, for those who prefer not to get too hot and bothered in bed. This is music to my perimenopausal ears, as regulating my temperature at night is starting to be a distant dream.

Review: Simba Hybrid Pillow

Having spent most of my life sleeping on cheap mattresses and buying budget bedding, it feels good to be treating myself to some quality bedding. I know it’s making a difference to me and my bad back, whenever I stay in a hotel or sleep in a not quite as good as mine is bed, I can feel it the next day. As I get older and creakier in my bones, I’m increasingly of the opinion that if you spend 1/3 of your day, or night in bed, then it’s worth investing in the good stuff. Simba have created a guide to UK bed sizes, for those looking to invest in a new bed.

Review: Simba Hybrid Pillow

My precious pillows were not cheap, but have flattened out and I’d started to wake up with a sore neck or a headache. I was very ready for an upgrade. I’ve slept on my new pillow for a few nights now and I’ve woken up feeling fresh, with no neck aches or grumpiness, which makes a nice change. The Simba Hybrid Pillows are currently £109 on the Simba website, but if you like me are forever searching for a not to soft, not too hard, just right pillow, then this might be the right way to go.

Bed

For this fussy little Goldilocks girl, I’m glad I’ve found my happily ever after pillow. I’m not quite Sleeping Beauty now, but I am whichever fairytale princess it is that wakes up without a stiff neck and a case of the bad sleep grumps. I just need to find myself a frog to kiss now.

Recipe: Healthy & Hearty Double Bean Soup

I’ve been making this soup for the last couple of years, it doesn’t have an especially inspiring name, but it is so flipping lovely. I make it when I’m starting to feel rundown, or when the weather is changing for the worse and I need a winter warmer. It’s a simple soup, but one even my teenager really loves.

I call it double bean soup because I use two tins of beans in it, usually butter beans or cannellini, sometimes white kidneys beans or occasionally I’ll throw in a tin of chickpeas. My favourite combo is butter beans and cannellini though.

It’s got a hearty vegetable base, and it’s so packed with good stuff, you can stretch it out a little if need be by adding more stock and seasoning, but it makes a big pot, a really big pot, perfect for lunch for a crowd or freezing for future rainy days.

Double bean soup

This simple soup is pretty quick to throw together, but it does benefit from a gentle simmer once you get going. There’s a fair amount of chopping, but once that’s done and dusted, the hardest part is opening the tins of beans.

Double Bean Soup

Ingredients:

1 tablespoon of olive oil
1 large onion, finely diced
3 sticks of celery, finely diced
2 or 3 medium carrots, finely diced
1 courgette, finely diced (optional)
3 large cloves of garlic, more if you fancy it
1 tin of butter beans
1 tin of cannellini beans, or whatever white beans you like
2 tablespoons of tomato purée
500mls of vegetable stock
Salt & pepper
Dried Italian herbs, about a heaped teaspoon
Paprika, about half a teaspoon
1 teaspoon of red wine vinegar
Pesto to serve
Optional additions – chopped fresh or frozen spinach, chopped fresh parsley

How to make double bean soup –

Swirl some olive oil to a large pan or soup pot. Add your finely diced onions, celery, carrots and courgettes, cook until they’re soft but not brown, this might take around 20 mins.

Throw in your crushed garlic and cook that out for a few minutes. Add your two tins of beans, tomato purée and hot stock. You can always add more stock later, but 500mls should be enough to get the soup party started.

Set your soup pan to a gentle simmer and add salt and pepper, dried herbs, paprika and the red wine vinegar. Leave it to simmer for about half an hour. At this point, add a generous spoon of your favourite green pesto and stir through.

Now is the time to have a taste to check you’re happy with the seasoning. If you’re not, please add more of whatever you think it needs. Occasionally I might add a pinch of sugar if it feels too acidic, but usually I end up adding more pepper and that’s about it. If you’re adding chopped spinach, throw that in now and stir until it’s wilted and it all looks good.

To serve, pour into soup bowls, top with a bit more pesto and/or chopped parsley and serve with crusty bread.

It’s a big bowl of health and vitality, and just the thing to serve on a chilly autumnal day.

If you enjoyed this recipe, you might also like this Norwegian inspired cauliflower cheese soup.

Double bean soup

Our summer holiday in Barmouth, Wales

A couple of years ago I visited Barmouth on a day trip and fell in love with its beautiful sandy beach, its wide skies and its potential for a lovely family holiday. This summer, we finally managed to book a proper break there, so here’s what we did on our holidays.

We’ve taken to booking Airbnbs in recent years, I know they can be controversial, but we’ve always had good luck with our bookings. This time we booked a two bedroom cottage up on The Rock, which was up 42 steps. Not ideal if you have mobility issues, but absolutely perfect if you enjoy drinking wine on the terrace watching the sun set over the wide sea.

Our summer holiday in Barmouth, Wales

The cottage cost a touch under £1000 for 7 nights, which was about my upper limit, but it was a week during high season and it did sleep five, so we did slightly over cater with the beds.

There’s abundant parking in Barmouth, but our cottage came with a private parking spot a short walk away. However, if like me you’re not a driver, Barmouth is incredibly accessible by train. We travelled from Manchester to Shrewsbury and changed there for Barmouth. The Barmouth trains are about every two hours, and if you plan your day trips carefully, you can visit some lovely places near to Barmouth without having to use a car.

Our summer holiday in Barmouth, Wales

In terms of shops, there are three small supermarkets in the town where you can stock up on food; Co-op, Iceland and Spar, all of which are located close to the train station. Barmouth has lots of interesting shops and art galleries, and a curiously high number of pet shops. It is a very dog friendly town, so that might explain the number of pet emporiums.

There are a good number of popular pubs, we visited The Tillman several times and their Wednesday cocktail menu (2 for £12 at the time of writing) is well worth exploring. There are several pubs located by the harbour, but if you enjoy real ales or cider, a must visit is the Myrddins Brewery & Distillery Ltd on Church street. It’s small but has a great selection of local ales and ciders. Lager fans shouldn’t miss their Wrexham lager, which is crisp, clean and delicious.

Our summer holiday in Barmouth, Wales

In terms of dining out, we had several delicious lunches at The Lobster Pot on the harbour. The name rather gives away the content of the menu, my lad loved the calamari and the mussels, and they do the most delicious salads and seafood platters. Evening meals we tended to cook at home, but we did squeeze in a chippy tea from The Mermaid, and then for comparison, another chippy tea on another night from The Dolphin. For us, The Dolphin did slightly have the edge over The Mermaid, but there wasn’t much in it and we’d recommend you also compare on contrast with two chippy teas!

Before we visited, we planned a couple of things to do, though I was desperate for a bit of a lazy week. On one wet day we visited Porthmadog for a look at the heritage railway, a mooch around the harbour and a visit to the Purple Moose Brewery and shop. We had lunch in the Portmeirion cafe, which was excellent and keenly priced considering its origins.

The next day was super sunny, so we walked across the famous Barmouth Bridge to Morfa Mawddach Station. The bridge takes around 15 minutes to walk across and the station is about another 15 minutes walk, there you can join the Mawddach Trail or head off to visit the Fairbourne Railway, but we were content with our walk, so headed back across the bridge, taking in the stunning views across the estuary.

Our summer holiday in Barmouth, Wales

Our last excursion was to Tywyn to travel on the world famous Talyllyn Railway. We went by train from Barmouth to Tywyn, a journey that should have taken about half an hour. Unfortunately, we experienced a points failure just outside Tywyn, so we ended up being on the train for nearly two hours. We’d missed our original booking on the Talyllyn Railway, but they were kind enough to honour our tickets, and so we travelled on this beautiful heritage railway into Southern Snowdonia.

Alas, because of the train stresses earlier in the day, there were delays and cancellations, so much of what should have been a gentle and restful chug up a Welsh mountainside, was spent looking online at buses and taxis and trying to find a way home with our return train cancelled. Still, it means we will have to return to visit the Talyllyn Railway on a day where we can all fully appreciate it. We did make it home, but it meant a speedy sprint through Tywyn to the train station and manny prayers uttered to the train gods.

Our summer holiday in Barmouth, Wales

Slightly scarred by our experiences with Transport for Wales, we opted to spend the next three sunny days close to our cottage, exploring the town, paddling in the sea and walking on the beach, eating good food and sitting reading on the terrace, taking in the views. This was just what I needed really, rest and some quality time playing Uno and watching the sun set over the sea.

Barmouth is a small town with a lot packed into it. The beach is stunning, there are good places to eat, there’s a train with a level crossing, which if you love trains and level crossings, makes for a brilliant way to spend an afternoon. There is a funfair, a small arcade and seaside hot donut shops up and down the promenade, but thankfully it’s no rival to any of the blingier seaside towns. It’s lively enough but step away from the front and there’s a lot of great shops, bars and restaurants and as much action or solitude as you’d like to find.

Our summer holiday in Barmouth, Wales

Will we go back? Very much so, yes. We were lucky to have just two wet days during our week, when the sun shines it really is the most beautiful place. It’s fairly easy to get to from Manchester and it’s a stunning destination for beach lovers and train enthusiasts alike. In short, Barmouth is brilliant!

A new dawn? How life has changed since 2010

My son was born in 2010. He was born six months into a new Conservative government under David Cameron. His whole life has so far been lived under Tory rule. He knows nothing else.

growing up fast

When I was pregnant with him I had a good job in the NHS. I’d worked my way up from office temp into hospital management. NHS budgets were tight and I’d often bring stationery in from home, our priority was patient care, getting people seen and sorted as quickly as we could. The hospital was clean, well maintained and the staff and patients were largely very happy with how things were.

In 2013, I left the NHS due to a spinal injury and became self employed. By the time I left, the cracks were starting to show, former colleagues were leaving, waiting lists for clinics were growing, and the brilliant clinicians and nurses I worked with were starting to struggle to manage with ever tighter budgets and fewer resources.

When my son was a baby, we were encouraged to attend our local and newly built Sure Start Centre. It was a place where Health Visitors would hold weighing clinics, you could go to stay and play, get breastfeeding support and find other local mums to make friends with. By the time my son was 3, the centre had been handed over to a local charity and was no longer the parental support lifeline it once was.

As part of the round of toddler activities we went to each week, we were regulars at the library, joining in with toddler story time, reading books in the children’s section and enjoying meeting other parents and small children there. In Manchester where we live, library services have been slashed since 2010, and our local library, though still open and thriving, had to cut back on what it could offer, including toddler story times. That was a sad day.

first day of school

Aged 4 my son started school, joining the nursery and subsequently got a place in Reception. It was a small church school, again run on a small budget and parents and staff did their best to raise funds for all the little extras. It was a good school, a great school, but in order to survive it joined an Academy Trust, which is what many schools have been forced into since 2010.

At school it became clear that my son had some learning disabilities, and so the school did its best for him, arranging for various assessments to be carried out and putting additional support in place for him. The SEN team did their best, but CAMHS is chronically underfunded and massively stretched, and it took 7 years to get an appointment and ultimately a diagnosis for him, which enabled him to get the appropriate support he needed. During this time the school had to find the money for his support within their own budget as without an ECHP the local authority won’t pay for any costs.

From when he was born I’ve taken my son to all the local parks, visited playgrounds, explored the wooded areas where nature thrives, chased each other through woodlands and gone pond dipping. Since 2010 local authority spending on the upkeep of our local parks has been cut to the bone. Areas have been fenced off from the public, playgrounds not maintained and then closed, tennis courts locked and left to rot. Litter piles up, anti social behaviour is rife, I can’t relax if my son, now 13 goes to the park by himself as every week a teenager gets assaulted there and one day it could be him.

Like libraries, local leisure facilities have been cut. We’ve lost swimming pools and running tracks, and sports fields have been sold to developers. Each year the sporting, leisure and learning opportunities for my son become fewer and fewer.

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And I now work in Adult Social Care, and I can’t begin to tell you how being chronically underfunded, understaffed and undermined by this government is doing incredible harm to the most vulnerable adults in society. That’s an essay for another time, perhaps.

In his 13, nearly 14 years on this planet, my boy has seen an NHS brought to its knees, he’s suffered due to a 7 year wait for his learning disabilities to be diagnosed, which ultimately impacts his education. He’s watched local services, which were set up to support him and children like him be decimated. His local parks and leisure facilities have been closed or neglected and that’s before we even start to think about the impact of covid on his generation.

When he wakes up on 5th July, I hope he’s waking up to a brighter future, and a new dawn. I vividly remember the May 1997 General Election, and how energised and exciting the whole country felt. I hope he gets to experience that buzz too. As they said way back then, things can only get better, and I really hope they do.

How to entertain a teen who is obsessed with trains

My son’s love for trains has been something he’s enjoyed and that we have nurtured since he was a toddler. He loved Chuggington, he loved Thomas the Tank Engine, he loved going to the local garden centre and having a ride on their little steam trains, he loved visiting heritage railways. He loved it all.

These days, he’s 13, with access to the internet and all the YouTube videos and train timetables he can get his hands on. He’s autistic and very big on detail, so trains, trams, timetables and network maps are the things in life he enjoys the most.

Heaton Chapel train station

Aside from his weekly visits to our local train station to watch the weekend action there, he likes us to take him on train journeys and to visit big stations where he can see a more exciting variety of trains. Weekends can often involve a local train journey, and he likes to plan longer, more complex journeys in the hope that we will take him somewhere exciting.

This week, I was all set to take him to a blogging event an hour or so away in Penkridge near Stafford. It got cancelled just after I’d booked us train tickets, which was unfortunate, but I figured we could still do the train bit and make the most of a day on the rails!

How to entertain a teen who is obsessed with trains

I jokingly, well, maybe half jokingly posted these instructions for a grand day out on Facebook, but the more I read them, the more I realised that this is pretty much the secret to a teenage train enthusiast’s joy. So I’m sharing it here for you too.

How to entertain a teen who is obsessed with trains

How to entertain a teen who is obsessed with trains

It’s been on my mind to buy a Friends & Family Railcard card a while now. Even short journeys with him were starting to add up, but for £30 a year, as long as we travel together, we get 1/3 off our train fares. Using the railcard to book our return tickets to Stafford saved us around £15, so it’s already starting to pay for itself!

Now that I have the railcard, I feel longer, previously too expensive journeys are more within our reach. A whole new railway world has opened up to us, and honestly, it’s a grand day out, just travelling somewhere and back again, though I may be more inclined to book a hotel and make more of a trip out of things now.

We had a really fun day out to Penkridge. I did have high hopes of exploring the town, finding somewhere nice for lunch, and stretching the day out a bit more. Alas, when we got there, it was raining pretty heavily and lots of things seemed to be closed, so we bought some sweets and headed back to Stafford station.

How to entertain a teen who is obsessed with trains

Stafford station is actually a pretty good spot for train spotting. The covered bridge over the station has a seating area where you can sit and watch the comings and goings. It’s also got a nice coffee shop as well as a Starbucks, and I once saw Su Pollard there, so there’s lots to commend it.

My son managed to tick off two kinds of trains he’d never been on before, and he had a really brilliant day watching, absorbing, enjoying, and enthusing. Trains might not excite me in quite the same way as they do him, but there’s something really lovely about supporting a teenager’s hobby and watching their love for it grow.

There’s also a lot to be said about being welcomed into his teen world and being able to spend quality time with him. Especially at a time when he’s starting to strike out on his own and he needs me less and less each passing week.

How to entertain a teen who is obsessed with trains

If you can tempt your train obsessed teen to go on a train journey with you, then I’d recommend it, not least because it’s a small way you can connect with them, and that’s a very lovely thing indeed. Safe journey!

A walk around Lindow Common, Wilmslow

We quite often visit Wilmslow in Cheshire and go out for a meal or look around the shops, but one of my most favourite things to do when I’m in Wilmslow is to take a walk around Lindow Common.

Lindow Common is on the outer fringes of Wilmslow, off Racecourse Road, and it’s a site of special scientific interest. It’s also home to Black Lake, which is probably the main attraction for me. Come rain or shine, if we are in the area, we will take a turn around the lake, sometimes if it’s cold, wet and miserable, it’s a very speedy walk. Sometimes, like over the weekend when the sun was shining, it was very much worth a lingering visit.

Lindow Common

This pocket-sized nature reserve is popular with dog walkers and nature lovers alike. Hundreds of years ago it was the village common, where locals would graze their animals, but the trees have rather taken over these days. The common is classed as lowland heath, so there’s a management programme in place where they’re selectively removing some of the birch trees to allow the native heathers to grow.

If you’re driving, there’s a small free car park opposite Hickory’s where you can park if you need to. It’s about a ten minute walk from the town centre, so it feels pretty accessible to me.

Lindow Common

There are information displays throughout Lindow Common, highlighting some of the rare or interesting plants, amphibians, birds and insects you might encounter on your visit. There are any number of things to spy on your walk around this man-made lake, but keep your eyes peeled for water voles, dragonflies, damselflies and a number of aquatic species. Beyond the water, the habitats provide cover for early migrating bird species including the chiffchaff, willow warbler and blackcap.

We don’t always walk through the heath areas, but over the weekend we took a short path through the wooded pathways. We walked through the heather filled heath and back to the familiar territory of Black Lake. The footpaths around the lake are generally well maintained and easy to walk on, and probably fine for wheelchairs and buggies, though parts can get a bit churned up after a prolonged period of wet weather.

Duck

In all the years we’ve been visiting Lindow Common, I’m pretty sure the weather this weekend was about the most perfect it’s been. There was not a cloud in the sky and the water shimmered and sparkled in the light. We spotted a number of birds including a rather handsome heron, some baby coots, moorhens, regular ducks and we heard that someone spotted a grebe on the other side of the lake. There was clearly a lot going on.

For those who like to linger, there are plenty of benches around the common where you can stop and enjoy the surroundings and possibly fuss a passing dog. It’s quite a small nature reserve, so there are no refreshment stalls or cafes within the reserve. If you want a drink or snack, you’ll need to bring your own, or pop across to a local café or restaurant. There are bins available, but you’re encouraged to take your litter back home with you if you can.

Lindow Common

Black Lake has a sturdy wire fence around it, presumably to protect the wildlife from excitable dogs wanting a swim, so it would be a disappointing visit if I took my water loving spaniel. The lack of swimming opportunities for dogs does mean that the lake is very peaceful and a real haven for birds and wildlife.

Growing up in South Manchester in the 1980s, we heard all about the discovery of The Lindow Man, in 1984. Pete Marsh, as he was known as was discovered in a peat marsh close to Lindow Common. It is thought he could date back to the Iron Age or though to Roman Britain. Pete Marsh is now being cared for by the British Museum, though I did see him once many years ago when he was exhibited at The Manchester Museum. He may yet return north in the future, and if he does it’s worth visiting this fascinating chap, wherever he ends up.

Lindow Common

Visiting info:

Lindow Common SSSI, Racecourse Road, Wilmslow, Cheshire, SK9 5NQ

A walk around Lindow Common, Wilmslow

Review: Simba Hybrid Mattress Topper

We were sent a Simba Hybrid Mattress Topper for review purposes. All images and opinions are our own.

I’ve lately been looking at my bedroom and feeling like it needed a spring clean and a refresh. Though my bed was comfy, it wasn’t necessarily as cosy as could be and I just wanted to change up some of my furnishings, get new bedding and just make it feel like a space for myself.

A little over ten years ago I had a few back surgeries, so my bed not only needs to be comfy and cosy, but it also needs to be supportive, and not too hard or too soft. I’m like Goldilocks when it comes to what I can sleep on, anything not quite perfect for me can increase my pain levels, worsen the numbness in my legs, or it can affect my mobility. I’d heard good things about the Simba Hybrid Mattress Topper, so I was excited to give it a try.

Simba Hybrid Mattress Topper

I bought my current mattress a couple of years ago, and it was holding up well against my nightly tossings and turnings, as well as occasionally being used as a trampoline by the smallest member of the household, but a mattress topper can not only make your mattress more comfortable, but it can also extend its life. Buying a mattress can be a significant financial investment, so prolonging its life with a mattress topper seems like a worthwhile investment.

Mattress makers Simba have a range of products apart from mattresses to help you sleep easier at night, including temperature regulating pillows and duvets, and this next generation memory foam topper, which is breathable and doesn’t make you overheat in the same way that traditional memory foam mattresses and toppers can do.

Simba

The Simba Hybrid Mattress Topper uses Simbatex® memory foam to keep you cooler and more cushioned, as well as up to 2,500 Aerocoil® springs. It also includes a removable, washable cover. Nevertheless, I did cover it in a mattress protector, because you can never be too careful.

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Putting the Simba Hybrid Mattress Topper to the test

The mattress topper arrives in a large box, and I’m not going to lie, it’s heavy. Reassuringly heavy. The box has some cut out handles on the side, which makes it easier to carry up the stairs. If like me you’ve got a bad back, please don’t attempt this, please do recruit someone else to do the carrying. My 13 year old brought it upstairs for me and we unpacked it together.

Simba Hybrid Mattress Topper

The mattress comes rolled up and vacuum sealed in a plastic bag. Once you cut open the bag it starts to puff up to the shape you want. It’s best to pull it into position on your bed while it inflates, for want of a better word.

Each corner of the topper has an elastic strap which you hook under your mattress to secure it in position. Once it’s in place, then it’s ready to use. As you can see, we got to testing it straight away.

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The topper probably adds around two inches of height to my bed, so that’s worth noting and it does take a little getting used to that change in height. It is incredibly comfortable, it’s soft but still firm enough for me. It doesn’t make my hips ache, which a lot of not quite right beds do for me, so that’s an excellent sign. I have felt like I was having a better quality of sleep, and my Fitbit app is telling me that I’m waking up less in the night since we made up the bed a week ago.

Simba Hybrid Mattress Topper

It comes with a 200 night trial and a 10 year guarantee, but within three nights I had very much made my mind up that this was a keeper and my son was also asking for one for his bed.

My double Simba Hybrid Mattress Topper currently costs £289 with free delivery on the Simba website. I’m already seeing the benefits in terms of sleep quality and comfort, and I think now I’ve tried it, I don’t think my bed, my back and I will ever be without it.

Simba Hybrid Mattress Topper

At least 44 fabulous things to do in Stockport

Growing up in South Manchester, I spent a lot of time in Stockport. I suppose it was easier for my family to drive and park there to go shopping and such like. I’ve always felt at home there. It’s a small town, with a compact shopping centre and the more I visit and explore in my adulthood, the more I love it.

In more recent years, I’ve been excited by the food and drink scene, spending time up near the famous Victorian market, enjoying the hospitality of many of the bars and restaurants in the area. I could cheerfully list a whole heap of places where I’ve wined and dined well in recent years, but with half term approaching, I thought I’d put together a list of fine things to do in Stockport. As ever, if I’ve missed something important, please do comment below and I’ll add it in.

Things to do in Stockport

If you’re new to Stockport and fancy a bit of family fun on a dry day, one thing we did a couple of years ago was download a Treasure Trail map, which is a really excellent way of getting to know somewhere. We did it with a couple of other families, and despite visiting Stockport regularly for over 40 years, I discovered so much I’ve never seen before. So that’s well worth looking at.

Additionally, Stockport has its own heritage trail, which if you’re a fan of historical buildings and such like, it’s also worth looking at. Keep an eye out for the plaques on the buildings around Stockport, and I believe you can pick up a trail map at the Stockport Visitors Centre.

Things to do in Stockport

Here is my big list of things to do in Stockport. Some indoor fun and outdoor things to explore, some in the town centre and some a little further out. There’s lots to see, do and explore in Stockport!

Things to do in Stockport

Things to do in Stockport

Museums & Galleries

Bramall Hall and Gardens
Chadkirk Chapel Museum
Old Rectory House
Old Town Dungeon & Court House
Robinsons Brewery Visitors Centre
Staircase House Museum
Stockport Air Raid Shelters
Stockport Art Gallery
The Stockport Museum
Stockport Town Hall
Strawberry Studios
The Avro Heritage Museum
The Hat Museum – currently closed, but reopening in March 2024!
The Underbanks & Underbank Hall
Visit Crowther Street, which LS Lowry once painted

Days Out: Visiting Stockport Air Raid Shelters

The Great Outdoors

Abney Hall Country Park
Alexandra Park
Brabyns Park
Cale Green Park
Dragon Miniature Railway
Etherow Country Park
Marple Locks
Reddish Vale Country Park
Reddish Vale Farm
Stockport Viaduct – the UK’s largest brick build structure
The Garden House (farm)
The Roman Lakes, Marple
Vernon Park
Woodbank Memorial Park

Winter in Abney Hall. PLUS Save Abney Cafe!

Indoor fun

Awesome Walls Climbing Centre
Brooklyn Pottery
Jump Heaven trampoline centre
Kids Go Karting
Merseyway Shopping Centre
Ropes Race Climbing Centre
Savoy Cinema, Heaton Moor
Stockport Garrick Theatre
Stockport Victorian Market Hall
The Light Cinema
The Produce Hall
The Stockport Plaza – theatre and period style cafe
Tramp2Lean trampoline centre
X-GENVR – virtual reality experience

Things to do in Stockport

Other fun things…

Stockport Foodie Friday – once a month head up to the Victorian Market to enjoy an evening of good food, good music and good fun!